Women Who Sell

I Let AI Help Me Design My Perfect Partner. He Showed Up in 30 Days

Eryn Morgan — Tue, 16 Jun 2026 12:00:37 GMT

I want to be clear about something before I tell you this story.

I’m three times divorced, and I honestly believe it’s because I settled every time, but each time in a different way.

I’m not ashamed of this fact. I’ve actually come to be grateful, because the wild ride of life experiences I had because of those marriages have given me valuable things to share with others.

But I wanted to share one of the biggest things I’ve learned from the last 20 years: not getting specific enough about what I truly, deeply wanted kept it from arriving.

I feared I’d be handcuffing the universe, making its job so hard it would take exponentially longer, nearing on impossible, to deliver anything at all.

20 Years of Good Enough

I never got too specific in my dating process. I made a lot of allowances and concessions.

“The biggest mistake,” I told myself “would be getting too specific. You’re liable to end up alone.”

I thought getting attached to the “cursed hows” was how you blocked the thing you wanted from arriving.

So I didn’t put too many parameters on the partners the Universe sent my way.

And when the proposals came, I said yes three times, when my entire being was internally screaming, NO!

So when my third marriage finally ended in January 2026, I told everyone the same thing: I was done.

Not taking a break. Done.

I reasoned that I had bad luck, was hard to live with, and deep down felt it would be unfair to put my family through another tumultuous round of “Eryn’s Bad Dating Luck” again.

The Cruise that Remapped the Destination

In December of 2025, I was cruising for the holiday with my parents. And there’s a rhythm and routine when I travel with them.

So imagine my surprise when going to the bar for a glass of ice for my mom resulted in making a friend.

Forget the Summer Sprint. Go to the Beach Instead

Eryn Morgan — Sat, 13 Jun 2026 15:11:00 GMT

It’s almost officially summer, and my inbox and feeds have been flooded with calls to join “summer sprints” focused on keeping us in motion when we’d all rather be at the beach.

I absolutely see value in putting in some focused effort in the summertime. For me, I’ve got longer days, good vibes, and plenty of pool time, so I can balance it with some focus…

I Forgot I’d Even Asked. A $100K Answer Showed Up Anyway

Eryn Morgan — Sat, 13 Jun 2026 14:37:54 GMT

I’ve come to terms with this equation: Me + Beach = Lobster

It’s true. It’s not that I don’t love the beach, but it’s a foregone conclusion that more than a few minutes spent waveside is a recipe for a sunburn.

That doesn’t stop me from thinking about the beach in a poetic, sitting-on-the-shore-with-a-glass-of-wine kind of way.

But my beach musings yesterd…

I Got a C Minus in Trusting the Universe (And I Teach This Stuff)

Eryn Morgan — Sat, 13 Jun 2026 14:28:32 GMT

My first conscious thought when I saw the jury summons in the stack of mail about a month ago was, “You have got to be kidding me?!”

Because after living in this county for only three years, I was genuinely flabbergasted that I was being called for the third year in a row.

I wish that my first thought had been some evolved, spiritually aware sentiment aro…